Our Story

If we’re being honest, this wedding wouldn't even be happening if it weren't for a specific trip to Europe, some mulled wine, and a very meddling best friend.

While Trevor’s best friend (and best man) Brian was wandering through Christmas markets in Europe with Trevor in late 2024, he decided Trevor’s dating app settings needed some "executive adjustments." If Brian hadn't played digital matchmaker from across the Atlantic, we never would have swiped right. So, if you see Brian at the bar in Sintra, feel free to thank him—or blame him, depending on how late the party goes.

The Real Green Flags

We finally met in December 2024, and while the New York winter was freezing, things between us heated up fast. We didn’t just realize we liked each other; we realized our lives were already weirdly in sync. The biggest "green flag"? Our matching doodles, Aksel and Malu.

Watching the two of them become best friends was like watching a mirror of our own relationship. They bring out the best in each other—and occasionally the most chaotic—which is exactly what we do for one another. If the dogs hadn't approved, we definitely wouldn't be writing this, but luckily, they’re as obsessed with each other as we are.

The First Date

For our first real date, Trevor took Jeni to Gabriel’s. It’s one of Trevor’s favorite local haunts and the kind of place where you can actually hear yourself think (and fall in love). The conversation was so easy that we weren't anywhere near ready to call it a night when the check came.

We wandered next door for a nightcap. It was right there, with the glow of Central Park South as our backdrop, that we shared our first kiss. In a city of 8 million people, it suddenly felt like it was just the two of us.

Life in Sync (and on the Slopes)

People talk about "compatibility," but for us, it’s just been about how naturally our lives fit together. We love the same things, we laugh at the same jokes, and we share a deep passion for the people closest to us.

However, we should probably set the record straight before we get to the wedding: Jeni is the superior athlete. When we’re skiing, Jeni is a literal pro, carving beautiful lines down the mountain with effortless grace. Trevor, on the other hand, is usually a few hundred yards behind, mostly just focused on staying upright and making sure he looks decent for the "après-ski" portion of the day.

The Big Question

By January 2026, we knew this was it. Trevor planned a getaway to Wildflower Farms, under the guise of a quiet weekend escape. In the middle of that stunning landscape, Trevor finally got down on one knee. It was private, perfect, and the easiest "Yes" Jeni has ever said. (Aksel and Malu were also thrilled, mostly because they assumed it meant more treats).

See You in Sintra!

We fell in love in the middle of Manhattan, but we’ve always shared a sense of adventure. We wanted to start our next chapter somewhere that felt as magical as our first year together. We can't wait to celebrate with you among the palaces and cobblestones of Sintra!